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As a bride-to-be, you want everything to be perfect on your special day, and this goes right down to your undergarments. You want to feel beautiful and well-supported, and aBra4Me has everything you need to ensure that your gown fits perfectly and you have all the confidence in the world as you walk down the aisle and then off to your reception to dance the night away.


Bridal Bras Fit for a Queen from Carnival, Elila, and More


For starters, check out the stunning Carnival 313 from Carnival Creations. This is a strapless lace bustier with a flattering silhouette, light boning, and removable garters. This is the classic bridal bustier in white or black, and it’s 20% off on

Carnival 313


Carnival 423 is also a fantastic choice for brides and members of the wedding party. Created by Carnival Creations, Carnival 423 features a high back bustier and light boning that gently cinches the waist. Adjustable garters complete the look, and both Carnival 313 and Carnival 423 look gorgeous paired with thigh hi stockings from Berkshire.

Carnival 423


If you want to keep things simple, but elegant, Carnival 203 is a backless, strapless bra that comes in white, black, or champagne. And, because it hooks at the waist, it’s perfect for backless gowns. The Carnival 203 also features strategically placed front boning to provide the perfect amount of tummy control. Also, like many of our bridal pieces, it is now available on at 20% off the original price.

Carnival 203


At aBra4Me, we also proudly carry a full selection of Elila strapless bras in all shapes, sizes, and colors to fit your dress and provide the exact look and support you’re looking for. Or, if you need barely-there coverage, Fashion Forms provides pasties (Breast Petals) and adhesive cup bras to keep you looking gorgeous and supported without any fuss.


Let Support You on Your Special Day


aBra4Me is your One-Stop Shop for bridal lingerie. We carry an incredible selection of longline bras, strapless bras, and bustiers in all levels of support. We also specialize in full figure bras and hard-to-find sizes, so we have the bra that’s perfect for you. You can also find a full selection of Berkshire stockings. And, again, many items from our exquisite bridal collection are on sale right now!


Visit, and please call us at 1(866) A-BRA-4-ME if you have any questions. Or, you can connect with us through the contact form on our website.

How long should a bra last?

How long should a bra last?

How long should a bra last??? That’s a question I get almost daily.You would think it would be an easy calculated answer but it is not.Sometimes you just know when you bra has had enough and needs to get tossed in the donation pile. Now you might think, what did she just say? YES, I said donation pile. I will hit on that topic at the end. 

The longevity of a bra is usually 6-8 months. Wacoal recommends after a 100 washings. A thru D cups might last a bit longer than DD-N cups. Now that depends on how many you have and how often you wear them. Also, you need to follow the washing instruction’s that was the topic of our last blog. 

Unlike me, most women have any where from 2 bras to 7. I hear a lot of woman say that they have one for everyday of the week. I have no idea how many I own but like most woman I gravitate to a chosen few. 

A good way to tell that your bra has lost it’s lifespan is when the elastic is stretched out. Are you getting enough support? Are your breasts jiggling as you walk.  Is the padding all clumped together and not smooth? Is it so loose that even the tightest hook doesn’t keep it in place? These are all good questions to consider. 

Don’t wait for the underwire's to pop out or getting holes it the cup. Then you waited too long. 

Nursing and sports bras won’t last that long. They get a lot more abuse from wear and stains.Make the investment in a good bra. You wouldn't think anything of it when you spend $30-$100 on a sweater or a pair of jeans that you might wear once a month. You wear a bra everyday and remember that sweater won’t look good if you are not wearing a good bra underneath. 

Now back to the donation part. Most women do not think of donating a used bra. Women’s shelters are in dyer need of undergarments. I’m not telling you to donate a torn or mangled bra but donate gently used ones and help a woman in need. 

Why Women Trust Edith Lances Bras for Comfortable, Well-Crafted Support

Edith Lances BrasWomen with large busts often struggle to find a bra that truly fits their needs. However, after purchasing their first Edith Lances bra, most ladies who require minimizing support from their undergarments never look back. Their search is over.

For well over 69 years, Edith Lances has been the go-to option for women who want a truly supportive, attractive, and well-crafted bra that is made to last. Believe it or not, any Edith Lances brazier can make the wearer look a full TWO cup sizes smaller. This feature alone expands your wardrobe options and allows you to feel more comfortable in the latest fashion trends.

Edith Lances bra, supportive bra for plus size women

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In addition, because they offer so much support, Edith Lances bras are great for migraine sufferers and anyone with back issues or chronic shoulder or neck pain. Also, because of their unique design and superb craftsmanship, undergarments from Edith Lances are comfortable to wear. They feature a unique one piece underwire that doesn’t dig into your underarms. So, you can confidently wear your bra all day and into the evening without the annoying pulls and pinches commonly associated with other minimizer bras.

Rest assured, too, that all Edith Lances bras are proudly crafted in the USA by union workers, using USA parts exclusively. Of course, now, it is a little more difficult to find a reliable retailer with a full selection of Edith Lances bras. Luckily, though, for fans of Edith Lances who won’t accept anything less than the very best in comfort and support, is your source for all things Edith Lances. They offer a huge selection of Edith Lances undergarments at unbeatable prices. And, right now, will give you free shipping on any Edith Lances order.

So, visit today to find your perfect bra for your active lifestyle. Started in 1985, has been helping women of all shapes and sizes find undergarments that truly fit their needs for well over thirty years. As a company, their goal is to help you find the support you need in a style that you’ll love.

How To Properly Wash Your Bras

This might seem like a simple task but there are many ways to launder bras. The goal is to make them last and not break them while washing.

The number #1 rule would be to hand wash. Some woman wear them into the shower and wash them with body wash or shampoo. I don't think I have ever tried that but I suppose it would save some time.

For those of us who don't have time to hand wash, we suggest using a laundry bag. 

With our schedules this is the easiest way to keep the agitator in the washing machine from breaking your underwire, bending it or poking through. The washing machine can also stretch out bra without an underwire. Let's not forget the clumps you can get from padded bras. The mesh bag will keep the bra contained but while this is not fool proof, the odds are much better at saving your bra. Just clasp the back of the bra, put it in a mesh bag and throw it in the machine on a short gentle cycle. 

Any detergent will do but stay away from anything with bleach. 

Rule #2 is an absolute must. DO NOT throw your bra in the dryer. It's the worst thing you can do to lycra and every bra has lycra. Either hang to dry or lay them on top of the dryer. As the dryer is drying your clothes the heat rises and that's enough to dry a bra.

Most people wash their bras after 2 times of wear. Sports bras should get a cool rinse if you don't wash them after every use. Every person's body is different so it depends on your bra size and how much you perspire. 

We hope that helps the laundress in your household.
Please feel free to ask any questions on this blog or to 

Animal prints will never go away. How many do you own?

Every girl should have something leopard print in her closet. Either a sweater, a jacket, a pair of shoes and defiantly a bra (or two). Leopard prints at one time showed a sign of elite status. Men hunted and used skins to show signs of wealth.

Leopar print - aBra4Me

The Royals and actors/actresses made leopard prints popular with dresses, coats and pants. I can remember as a kid watching First Lady Jacqueline Kennedy (whom I was named after) wearing that iconic leopard coat. Women, including my mother ran out to buy one.

Jacqueline Kennedy aBra4me - Animal Print

Who can forget Rod Stewart running around the stage in those leopard pants?

Rod Stewart - Animal Print Pants - aBra4me

Facebook fan asked this question:
"TE" In terms of color, is black much more popular than red? Do you think seasonal differences make that much difference in color selection?

What a great question! In the last 31 years of being in the intimate apparel business I can honestly say I’ve watched some major trends come and go. I can tell you in all those years nude and black bras have always remained the #1 selling colors. On the onset of each season either nude or black will have a surge along with red and animal prints. Other colors and prints make appearances but why have animal prints never become boring? We sell leopard prints all year long!

“We feel sexy and feminine when we wear animal prints which is why we were

so inspired to create our supportive leopard lace collection.”

- Ellen Jacobson of Elila -

Check out our favorite animal print bras:

Picture of Lunaire #15211 Barbados BraElila 2211Picture of Goddess #6160 Kayla Bra 50% OFF

Animal prints will never go away. How many do you own? 


Top 5 Sports Bras For Your New Year Resolutions

Start working on your New Year’s resolutions with the perfect sports bra for you! If you are ready to hit the gym and you are looking for the perfect bra for working out, check out at this list we put together with our Top 5 favorite sports bras.

  1. Brooks sports bras are designed to move with you comfortably, regardless of shape or size. One of our favorites is the Brooks #350067. This sports bra is ideal for fuller cupped women. Thanks to the padded convertible straps, fitted design and compression materials this bra offers great comfort and support.


  1. Our next featured sports bra is the high to medium impact Brooks #350054. This underwire sports bra provides generous coverage. The bra uses molded shapes to help you maintain shape and the underwire helps provide additional support for your breast. The gel padded straps help provide superior fit and comfort.





  1. The Goddess #6940 is a great sports bra with no wire and soft cups. The advanced fabric technology materials used in this bra have anti-microbial, and moisture management properties. This bra also comes with padded straps for added support and comfort. If you’d like to buy this same style in grey color search for the Goddess #6911

 Goddess 6940


  1. If you are looking for a bra that can help you minimize the bounce while working out, try the Elomi #8041. The Elomi Energise Underwire bra has a unique construction. This bra has a higher neckline to offer additional control. The non-compression design helps separate, shape and support your bust. This sports bra will make you look and feel ready to work out.


  1. Our #1 Selling Sports bra is the Lunaire #1111. This is an award-winning bra that provides superior support for full- busted women. This sports bra us made with a fabric that dries 5 times faster than cotton. The CoolMax breathable lining helps wick away moisture from the skin. The encapsulation design helps separate the breast giving you additional compression and support.

 Lunaire 1111


 If you need help choosing the right sports bra for yourself, make sure to give us a call, we will be happy to assist with the sizing and any other questions you might have.

The Elila 1305

Elila 1305


The Elila bra 1305 is our #1 selling bra for the last 7 years in a row! This full coverage, firm support soft cup bra is made for women with large breast.  One of the best features of this bra is the cushioned and adjustable shoulder strap. This bra will give you the perfect support without hurting your shoulders.

The full coverage 3-piece soft cup, helps support an evenly distribute the bust for an uplifted shape while reducing back and shoulder strain.  The elastic Powernet back helps give the body a smooth appearance under clothes. This style is great for customers who like to the Goddess 110 bra.

The bra is available from sizes 34F to 52N. The jacquard leaf patterned fabric gives this bra a soft a feminine touch. You can purchase this bra in 7 different colors: black, blue, red, nude, white, lilac, and mocha mist. For the holiday season our clients really like the Elila bra 1305 in red, matched with the Elila panty 3405 or 3311. According to some New Year legends wearing red underwear during New Year’s Eve can help you attract good luck in love for the next year.

If you need help placing your order don’t hesitate to give us call at (866) 227-2463

Underwire vs. No Underwire

Underwire vs. No Underwire

To have an underwire or to not have an underwire?… That is the question! 

Yes, that question seems to come up almost daily. The simple and yet complicated answer is that it depends. 
It depends on your shape. Every single size can wear both. It doesn’t matter if you’re an A cup or if you’re a N. What’s more important is the shape of your body and the shape you would like your chest to have.

Smaller cup sizes can benefit from underwires to look more shapely and bigger. Or wireless bras with padding can do the same thing.
Underwire bras for larger cup sizes are beneficial for shape and shoulder strain as well.  The more your breasts are lifted and supported the less strain on your shoulders and neck. There have been direct links to migraine headaches and woman who wear the wrong bra size. No wire bras are great for larger cups sizes or uneven cups. If you are pear shaped the best thing is a wireless bra because it is more forgiving and lays flatter on the ribcage.

If you have a short torso or high ribcage then an underwire can hit you at the wrong place and a no wire would be more comfortable. 

Some woman shy away from an underwire bra because they think they are uncomfortable. That can be further from the truth. If it’s uncomfortable then there are usually just 2 reasons:

  1. You are wearing the wrong size… Check out our Fitting Room!
  2. You might be shaped with a high stomach, pregnant, or have a hernia to name a few. 

So, the most important thing is to get the right size first and then it’s a choice of wire or no wire for shaping and best fit. 

If you are having any doubts about your fit, call our experts at 1 (866) A-BRA-4-ME and we will help you with your order!

Our Favorite Strapless Bras

Sometimes, you get a really cute shirt or dress but it doesn’t have sleeves but you need support. That is where our strapless bras can really come in handy. Or if you just have rounded shoulders and get sick of yanking those pesky straps up all day, a strapless bra could be perfect for you. We have multiple options for you to pick from!


Elila #6421

Elila 6421 Strapless Bra

The Elila 6421 longline bra has spiral boning strategically placed to give maximum support. It also has a covered bottom band to the hip for an invisible look. It is 2in longer than other strapless longlines. It even comes with straps, just in case!


Elila #6621

Elila 6621 Strapless Bra

The Elila 6621 bra is all lace with boning in cups, which makes it impossible to fall down. The boning makes the bra a perfect fit and prevents slippage. It also comes with straps.


Goddess #689

Goddess 689 Strapless Bra

The lovely Goddess 689 bra is all lace, has light boning in cups to prevent slipping down and is the most supportive strapless longline bra around. Stand out from the crowd on the biggest day of your life with the ultimate in bridal garments. Perfect bra under any dress or blouse defines and enhances your silhouette.


Carnival Creations #203

Carnival Creations 689 Strapless Bra

If you are looking for the perfect strapless bra for that dress you just found for the holidays, look no further. The Carnival Creations 203 is our #1 backless and strapless bra! Made of a nice double knit nylon and lightly lined with fiberfill to provide comfort, this bra is backless, which is perfect for any low back dresses or blouses!

Strategically placed front boning provides extra tummy control. Plus, it’s 2 in elastic waistband prevents ride up.

 You can’t go wrong with any of these strapless bras. If you have questions or need help ordering, just contact us! We’d be happy to assist you.

Our Top Selling Bra: The Elila #1305

Elila 1305

The Elila #1305 bra is our top selling bra for the last 10 years, and with good reason. This bra is available in sizes 34F-52N. These wide range of sizes also come in a bunch of colors, giving you plenty of fun options to choose from. While it doesn’t have a wire, it still manages to provide great support due to its internal sling. So, if you are looking for that extra support but are sick of wires poking you, this bra might be just what you are looking for! With that support also comes an improvement to your silhouette and appearance, which is always a plus, right? The engineered strap buckle gives holding power by reducing the straps ability to slip. All these features mean less stress on your shoulders and back all while helping you look better and keeping you comfortable. What more could you ask for in a bra? If you would like to check out all the different colors we have available and when they will be available in different sizes, check out our website or contact us at (866) 227-2463! 

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